Progress: The Quarter-Life Career Crisis
Sooner or later a crisis comes to our
affairs, and how we meet it determines our future happiness and success- Robert
Collier
Crisis- for just a few letters it’s a
big big word. But what does it really mean? A lot of people say things like
catastrophe or disaster but when you look it up in a dictionary, one definition
is ‘a turning point or time for decisive action’.
As many of you know, I’ve recently
embarked on a market research campaign, Project 121. The result so far is that
many of the participants are experiencing what I fondly call The
Quarter-Life Career Crisis.
The most common experiences described
have been:
1.
Just out of school and college and stuck in the
‘I need to get experience to get the job but I need the job to get
experience’. It’s frustrating because you’re at a turning point in your
life, between college and the working world and you just want someone to give
you a chance! Bottom line, you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed and confused.
2.
The
second most common experience of The QLCC are the people who have been working
in a job or industry for a few years and although they had enjoyed it in
the past, they’re beginning to ask themselves ‘Is this it?’ If you’re in
this group, you tend to get caught up in the detail and in managing day-to-day
life, you find it almost impossible to see a bigger, better picture which would
allow you to create a plan to move yourself into something more rewarding. Plus,
you don’t feel like you can really talk to anyone about it because you’re
afraid the response will be ‘You should be grateful you have a job’.
Bottom line, you’re feeling stuck, underwhelmed and confused.
3.
The
third most common group are those who are currently job-hunting and may
have been for a while. Your confidence and optimism levels take a dive any time
anyone even has the courtesy to send you a rejection letter never mind the
number of applications that go unanswered! As time goes on, you see your
chances of securing employment getting slimmer and slimmer. You have no idea
what you’re doing wrong and no idea what to do next. Bottom line, you’re
feeling stuck, both underwhelmed and overwhelmed at the same time and of
course, confused.
And all
of these individuals are aged between 20–35 (The Fun Age!!) So, can you relate
personally or does this sound like someone you know? If so, read on and/or
forward this to anyone you think may be interested!
So what
happened to Career Planning?
I’m sure
you’ll agree that career planning is an area we tend to avoid. Let’s face it,
most of us spend more time planning and researching a holiday destination than
we do thinking about our career. It’s incredible the amount of people who drift
from job to job with no clear idea of the way their career is heading.
This is
one of the ways that the Quarter-Life Career Crisis crops up! We get ourselves
to the point where we’re thinking ‘I must
get out of here, my heads going to explode or I’m going to kill someone. I have
to find work now. I have to completely change career.’
Too many of us are passive when it comes
to our careers and we end up going with the flow. We don’t set boundaries with
our bosses, we sell ourselves short on our CV’s and at interviews, we ask
ourselves ‘who am I to apply for that promotion or that job?’ We end up being
directed by the environment, external pressures and expectations instead of by
our own values- the things that are most important to us. We stay like this
until we hit our crisis- our turning point, our time for decisive action.
For me,
the heart of career coaching is helping people figure out what they feel called
to do and developing a step-by-step plan to get them there. It’s all about
shifting from passive to in control. The normal, routine straight line
thinking we normally do in life rarely works here. Exciting career change
usually involves taking at least one risky step, which often begins with the
question ‘What if......?’
What’s
your ‘What if..............?
I
hope you enjoyed this issue of Progress! Please feel free to get in touch and
share any of your thoughts or ideas with me via email/facebook/twitter! I’d
love to hear from you! Also, if you have a topic or question you would like me
to address, please just let me know!
Until
next time,
Love
and Respect,
Paula
Note:
PROJECT 121
Project
121: Quarter-Life Career Crisis
I
am looking for 121 individuals aged 20-35 to share their views on their career
with me. I want to find out what it’s like for you right now in your career,
whether you are just out of college and finding yourself in the catch 22
situation of ‘I need experience to get the job but I need the job to get
experience’ OR if you’ve been
working in a job for a while but it’s just not doing it for you anymore and you
yearn for something more meaningful and rewarding OR if you’re currently job hunting and are completely frustrated.
I set up
my Career & Life Coaching business, The Aspirations Coach, to serve
quarter-lifers (20-35 age group) and the purpose of this project is to really
identify the needs of my clients so that I can offer the best possible service
and products at a realistic price level. Needless to say, your input is
invaluable to me!
This is a
hugely important project for me as it will have implications for the viability
of my business and its future development. I would really appreciate your help
with this and also if you could pass the message on to others, it would be
fantastic! The interviews can be conducted face-to-face, via telephone approx
(30 mins) or online and all answers will remain completely confidential.
As a ‘Thank
you so much!!!’ I will also be gifting each participant with a 40 minute
private coaching session with me if you are based in Dublin or via telephone if
you are outside Dublin.
If you
would like to take part in this project, please contact me for further details
through my email info@theaspirationscoach.com
or call/text me on 0868745157.
Thanks in Advance,
Paula